71. The two versions

We have two versions of ourselves:

- the one with the door shut

- the one with the door open

When we keep the door shut we get stuff done, we get creative, and we process things very quickly.

But there is a danger.

When the door stays shut we can overthink things, isolate ourselves, and consequently lead unhealthy lifestyles.

When we keep the door open we hear different perspectives, interact with others, and develop empathy.

But a danger lives here too.

We no longer are individuals who can be decisive. We don’t know what we would choose on our own- we are too reliant on others and therefore can’t sit down and do the work.

So what is the solution?

“Sometimes you have to disconnect in order to better connect with yourself and with the people you serve and love” - Ryan Holiday

You need to shut the door to make having the door open worthwhile.